Think PINK

          Every time you were upset or depressed, the persons close to you not able to give a solution to your problems, they encourages you to think positive... Thinking positively... Maybe a too laconic expression... Hearing it so many times, probably that it had lost sense or probably you have not ever know what is the true meaning... Have you ever stopped your activity for 30 seconds to ask yourself what mean to think positively.

          Positive thinking is nothing else than to have a winner attitude... Is it that "WANT, CAN, SUCCEED" toward which tends all... It is that kind of mental behavior with which manage to overcome the difficulties of your life and to fulfill your dreams... It is the anticipation of happiness, joy, success and health…                                                

          Each of us have passed along the years through moments when we felt that, for one reason or another, our life is turned upside down. Then, dark thoughts cloud our view and feel that we can not get out of that vicious circle of troubles, which seem to bring other and other troubles with them... The first instinct is to identify the cause which led to this depressed situation but most of the time we do not realize which is the exact moment that life struck us. And that is because generally this thing does not happen suddenly... Almost none of those who go through such an experience, who had lost their dearest or being in which they believed, can not say that was all about, a phone or a letter, or that they had a sudden unexpected discovery, an illumination, after which our life would collapse.                                                                               

          This is the moment when should take place the latch for unchaining when you refuse to look down, when you look at the full half glass, when you propose favorable future evolution... You should remember the pleasant moments of life and tend to relive them. Do not victimize you, be honest with you so you can reconcile with yourself and with what you are...                                                                                                   

          Positive thinking do not have to mean foolish optimism, superficiality in addressing problems or indifference. It is absurd to think that adopting a positive attitude you become a millionaire or that incurable diseases will be treated with the power of thought... With all this do not underestimate the power of thought, because in times of trouble, all difficulties - which are part of life - will be easier to pass if you orient the way of thinking on the principles of positive thinking ...                               

          Certainly you had days when in personal or professional life you had the feeling that everything goes smoothly and that it can not doing anything wrong. The next day you lived the experience the opposite, where everything seemed to go bad or very bad, when you fail to do some things that makes them easily yesterday, when each action was wrong, when any attempt seemed doomed to failure. You are not asked, how, when you are the same person with the same resources available in the same situation one day you give amazing results which you are proud, and in others only miserable results? The answer to the question regarding performance differences you will find only in the mental state in which you were... There are conditions that stimulate trust in you, love, inner strength, joy, ecstasy, which unlocks your personal power, but also state which blocked you, of confusion, depression, fear, sadness, frustration, which drained you of your power, states which can become defining, reflecting your personality later.                                                                                                

          Do not indulge long time in the depression and anxiety because all this bad experience are recorded, without you realize, in an area of the subconscious... Much of thought departing from your subconscious, which is an ocean of automatisms, skills, informations, emotions, memories. You are not aware that your feelings, memories, experiences, all that you saw, will remain ever present and will influence how make your choices. If now, you do not have the life you desire, it means that your subconscious is inoculated the idea that it is state of happiness you deserve. But the subconscious does not make a selection of thoughts and emotions the stored and can not discern between good and bad, between fantasy and reality. It is responsible for many of our decisions because, thinking based on logic and conscious is in much smaller proportion than that based on subconscious. As the amount of negative thoughts and emotions stored in your subconscious mind is greatly you need more time and wishes to overcome the blockage and have your dream life...                                                                     

          Your positive thinking is not only your... Thinking positive you influence the people around... Happiness, joy, smile which you transmit will be taken immediately to others. Your positive mood will bring close your friends which will love you and will cherish you.  

          So be the person who faces life with a positive attitude and you will always have greater success in personal and professional life, but a person which can not take control of his thoughts. Do not forget that troubles come and go... They will always attract other and other troubles, but must have the courage to pass from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm...

                                                                  

      When the life knock you, get up calm, shake out by dust, smile polite and say: "KICKING LIKE A GIRL!!!"

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The life goes on... even without you

    Life is a series of ups and downs... Happy moments alternate with difficult moments... Nobody feels the pressing lonely and the sour taste of despair when life smiling and when your friends are close... But the difficult moments, reveal the true character of the human and highlight the power to overcome difficulties and to put the past behind... Yes, it is about those difficult moments when we face changes or even to generate these changes ourselves, when we have to take important decisions or when we are faced decisions taken by others, immovable which affects us directly and personally.
    Each of us react differently to such changes ...
    Some accept change very easily, with head up and they move on...
    Others had the time problem...  They live running after the time but they can not get it, even when run faster... For the others the time delay to pass and they look greedy to the future, forgetting to live in the present moment which is the really time... For everyone the time is equal, no one has no more and no less than 24 hours a day ... The difference is what do each with that time... We must take advantage from every moment, because THE LIFE IS WHAT PASSES, while we make plans for the future...
    There are people who do nothing in life but solving the problems: solve my problems, solve your problems, solve another people problems... But they forget about own soul... They forget that must live and love... But there are moments in the life when it is time to love himself... To take care of own soul ... To not be sensitive to others, to not hear what others say, just to do what they feels and what they wants... And if one kind of person is asked tomorrow by someone, "why does not care?", is time to answer "that because cared too much before..." If he asked "why do not cry?", is time to answer "that because i cry too much so far..." And if he wondered  "why sit alone in a corner?", it is time to answer "because it is time for own soul..."

    Some of us find it harder to accept the new reality and the current status of affairs and they strive hard to keep with the teeth of the past.

We must remember that we can not be now, just missing the past. Even wondering "why???". What has happened, has happened, and if you want to be free, you must detach from the past. Facts pass and be left to pass! That is why, sometimes, it is so important to destroy memories, to make a gift, to change your house, to break the papers, to throw old documents, and to sell or make  gift your favorite book. The past is past... Obstinately repeating the phrase "my personal past" would hurt soul and mind, and will poison and sadden you. Life is only forward, never backward... If you go through life leaving "open door" - just in case - you never could detach from the past, you will not live this day with gratitude. The love or the friends you do not remove them from the heart? Possibilities to you return? Why? Need the explanation? Unspoken words? Now it's time to make the decision... If you can face them, now it's time ... If not, let them go, close the chapters... Tell yourself: "I do not want them backward". But not because of pride or vanity, but because you do not be part of that place, in that heart, in that room in the house, from that office, in that job...
    You are not the guy from two days ago or three months, or a year. Therefore, there is nothing to which to come back... Close the door, gives the page, completes the cycle... You will not be the same and the environment will not be the same too, because nothing remains static in that life.
    For your mental and spiritual health, detach for all things that not appear in your life... Realize that no one and nothing is indispensable... Nobody is vital for you to live... You came into this world alone, so readapt to live with yourself, without that close human or physical, that comes you so hard to break up today.
    Never, when we are in difficult moments, in the crossroads, we not remember that the unwritten vacuum law that will operate and it says that to make way for good things in our lives, we need to escape old ones... Many people do not know that immutable law of the universe and, as it happens by itself this life "cleansing", they fall into the abyss of despair and depression, continuing to live in the past and feel that the life will never be the same again... but fortunately, life can be much better...
  To open a new door, sometimes you need to close other doors and opportunities will arise. All you have to do is to give up what was, to accept that it was over and you trust that something better awaits us and only now will could manifest in our lives... And this is true in any area of ​​life, be it career, family or love life.
    You just ended a relationship? Remember the good things, analyze what went wrong, to not made the same in the future, it is just to can improve and to move with the head up... Call your friends and go out... Now you have all the time and space to find what you want, backed by more experience and wisdom. Remember only this: never forget someone important in our lives but learn to live without him...
    Always must to know when it's time to finish a particular stage of life and to have the courage to say STOP. If you insist you keep in that stage beyond a reasonable time, you lose your joy and sense of what is beyond. Close cycles, or doors, or chapters. Important is to close it and you can leave behind moments of our life, moments which ends.

We must learn the lesson and keep walking, because who does not learn the lesson of the past, are condemned to repeat it...

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