Each of us react differently to such changes ...
Some accept change very easily, with head up and they move on...
Others had the time problem... They live running after the time but they can not get it, even when run faster... For the others the time delay to pass and they look greedy to the future, forgetting to live in the present moment which is the really time... For everyone the time is equal, no one has no more and no less than 24 hours a day ... The difference is what do each with that time... We must take advantage from every moment, because THE LIFE IS WHAT PASSES, while we make plans for the future...
There are people who do nothing in life but solving the problems: solve my problems, solve your problems, solve another people problems... But they forget about own soul... They forget that must live and love... But there are moments in the life when it is time to love himself... To take care of own soul ... To not be sensitive to others, to not hear what others say, just to do what they feels and what they wants... And if one kind of person is asked tomorrow by someone, "why does not care?", is time to answer "that because cared too much before..." If he asked "why do not cry?", is time to answer "that because i cry too much so far..." And if he wondered "why sit alone in a corner?", it is time to answer "because it is time for own soul..."
Some of us find it harder to accept the new reality and the current status of affairs and they strive hard to keep with the teeth of the past.
We must remember that we can not be now, just missing the past. Even wondering "why???". What has happened, has happened, and if you want to be free, you must detach from the past. Facts pass and be left to pass! That is why, sometimes, it is so important to destroy memories, to make a gift, to change your house, to break the papers, to throw old documents, and to sell or make gift your favorite book. The past is past... Obstinately repeating the phrase "my personal past" would hurt soul and mind, and will poison and sadden you. Life is only forward, never backward... If you go through life leaving "open door" - just in case - you never could detach from the past, you will not live this day with gratitude. The love or the friends you do not remove them from the heart? Possibilities to you return? Why? Need the explanation? Unspoken words? Now it's time to make the decision... If you can face them, now it's time ... If not, let them go, close the chapters... Tell yourself: "I do not want them backward". But not because of pride or vanity, but because you do not be part of that place, in that heart, in that room in the house, from that office, in that job...
You are not the guy from two days ago or three months, or a year. Therefore, there is nothing to which to come back... Close the door, gives the page, completes the cycle... You will not be the same and the environment will not be the same too, because nothing remains static in that life.
For your mental and spiritual health, detach for all things that not appear in your life... Realize that no one and nothing is indispensable... Nobody is vital for you to live... You came into this world alone, so readapt to live with yourself, without that close human or physical, that comes you so hard to break up today.
Never, when we are in difficult moments, in the crossroads, we not remember that the unwritten vacuum law that will operate and it says that to make way for good things in our lives, we need to escape old ones... Many people do not know that immutable law of the universe and, as it happens by itself this life "cleansing", they fall into the abyss of despair and depression, continuing to live in the past and feel that the life will never be the same again... but fortunately, life can be much better...
To open a new door, sometimes you need to close other doors and opportunities will arise. All you have to do is to give up what was, to accept that it was over and you trust that something better awaits us and only now will could manifest in our lives... And this is true in any area of life, be it career, family or love life.
You just ended a relationship? Remember the good things, analyze what went wrong, to not made the same in the future, it is just to can improve and to move with the head up... Call your friends and go out... Now you have all the time and space to find what you want, backed by more experience and wisdom. Remember only this: never forget someone important in our lives but learn to live without him...
Always must to know when it's time to finish a particular stage of life and to have the courage to say STOP. If you insist you keep in that stage beyond a reasonable time, you lose your joy and sense of what is beyond. Close cycles, or doors, or chapters. Important is to close it and you can leave behind moments of our life, moments which ends.
You are not the guy from two days ago or three months, or a year. Therefore, there is nothing to which to come back... Close the door, gives the page, completes the cycle... You will not be the same and the environment will not be the same too, because nothing remains static in that life.
For your mental and spiritual health, detach for all things that not appear in your life... Realize that no one and nothing is indispensable... Nobody is vital for you to live... You came into this world alone, so readapt to live with yourself, without that close human or physical, that comes you so hard to break up today.
Never, when we are in difficult moments, in the crossroads, we not remember that the unwritten vacuum law that will operate and it says that to make way for good things in our lives, we need to escape old ones... Many people do not know that immutable law of the universe and, as it happens by itself this life "cleansing", they fall into the abyss of despair and depression, continuing to live in the past and feel that the life will never be the same again... but fortunately, life can be much better...
To open a new door, sometimes you need to close other doors and opportunities will arise. All you have to do is to give up what was, to accept that it was over and you trust that something better awaits us and only now will could manifest in our lives... And this is true in any area of life, be it career, family or love life.
You just ended a relationship? Remember the good things, analyze what went wrong, to not made the same in the future, it is just to can improve and to move with the head up... Call your friends and go out... Now you have all the time and space to find what you want, backed by more experience and wisdom. Remember only this: never forget someone important in our lives but learn to live without him...
Always must to know when it's time to finish a particular stage of life and to have the courage to say STOP. If you insist you keep in that stage beyond a reasonable time, you lose your joy and sense of what is beyond. Close cycles, or doors, or chapters. Important is to close it and you can leave behind moments of our life, moments which ends.
We must learn the lesson and keep walking, because who does not learn the lesson of the past, are condemned to repeat it...
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